Reflections Of A Man

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There seemed to be a heavy sense of female empowerment in this book, which is fabulous but I think the man in a healthy relationship should be treated just as equally. Which the book does not disapprove that at all, I just found it didn't have much towards a man's emotional needs as a woman's; but it does have some. And the way I look at it is that a lot of what I read in this book that a man should do for a woman, a woman should also do for a man but I think this book implies that.

At long last, a magnificent full translation of Mann's untimely masterpiece . . . an obviously complex and profound work. To be honest, I personally think that this book is more targeted towards the broken-hearted and ill-fated relationship. And it covers the topics well for the targeted audience and helps you to carry yourself and move on. Many women, especially those who are in right after breakup or rejection phase may find this as a comforting book. But, the book doesn't really convey the truth "He's just not that into you". It sugarcoats the situation to make the woman feel she deserves better, which also means sour grapes in certain scenarios. The author believes that life could become more satisfying if man’s attention remains for one woman he is with. So, if you're a good/okay person and not an asshole there is nothing new in this book for you.. The book should have started and ended with "Try not be an asshole". That's the gist of it.Reflections of a Nonpolitical Man] feels not just worthy of our attention but somehow indispensable. . . . The idea that we do damage to life’s most important elements when we use them instrumentally, for political ends, poses a real challenge to our moment, obsessed as it is with the political responsibility of the artist. Unconditional, healthy and good love for all. Women and men. We can all do wrong, we can all do right. Reflections Of A Man is a book designed for both men and women to enhance the quality of their personal relationships. I was really compelled to read this because there have been a number of requests of this book in our local bookstores. This is a self-help book for those who are in a relationship and for those who are looking for one and wants some guidance as to how being in a mutual relationship is all about. I have nothing against this book, I mean yeah, a lot of things written here are really helpful for those people who seem to have no idea what they are getting into. Without the impassioned patriotic document it is impossible to see Mann's artistic and political development in the right perspective.

To be honest I already know most of the things I've read here, If you have been in a few relationships, I'm sure you already felt what true love is, or not or you're able to distinguish what kind of people suits you more, I'm sure you've been hurt, made mistakes and learned from them. I'm sure you're well enough without this book, just keep doing what you're doing because the thing about it is that it tends to be pretentious not everything about it is true, not everything about it reflects every man or woman because we are different people, we react and deal with things differently. This book in my opinion seems to generalize every action and mistakes of a person and the meaning under those situations are more often than not true but some situations in relationships are more complex than the simpler reasons Mr. Amari Soul is giving us. But the thing is, you don't necessarily follow them just because the book says so, It's there to help you but it sure did not help me, there isn't a thing in this book that I don't already know. Now I know I'm not the target audience ( strong, confident, overly sensitive and fragile woman :D :P ) for this book but I'd still leave a review just because I'm so tired of stupid people making all the men look bad without any strong arguments... When I started reading — Reflections of a man, the first thought appear in my mind was, who would invest such efforts? But as I continued I realized he guide men and women which is not very difficult (if one really wants to improve his relationship). Although I myself have yet to have a real romantic relationship, I can understand and relate to a lot of the passages in this book. I can also see it being more helpful and uplifting to those who have had bad experiences with relationships.

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The author of this book must have a wonderful, loving heart and soul and anyone, man or woman, should aspire to be just as insightful, loving, soulful, and intuitive to their significant other. Then again I know awesome examples for non fictional/self-help books on topics that don‘t affect me at all, I love beyond words. However, for married couples, termination of marriage puts too much at stake and a different approach is needed to save whatever is left. Not to judge, but I have a sense that the author is unmarried and had gone through a bad relationship in the past. The author encourages more of termination of relationship rather than to talk, discuss and sort things out between the 2 lovers. When are people going to realize that this is exactly the kind of shit that promotes the "blame culture". The shit that promotes you standing in front of the mirror and saying "I am beautiful, I am strong" just so you could hide the fact that you won't accept a fact.. No beautiful person ever goes in front of the mirror and says that crap.. They just know they are..

Some of the later passages read like poetry to me and overall, it's a beautiful and inspiring book. Love, love, love. Keeps justifying every petty detail that's wrong with woman and somehow twists and molds it in a way that it's the man's fault! (just like a woman :D ) Reflections helps us to understand the problem that has not gone away: the dilemma of the intellectual (the writer, the artist) in politics.I don't know how or why I came across this book but when I started reading this I instantly knew this was pure feminist crap... And then... Just for fun... I kept reading it.. :D In the book, mr. Amari Soul has given every possible guide to women about how not to lower their standards for any men and not to give up their individuality for the sake of relation. After all, a healthy bond means, your man must respect and accept you “the way you are”. He discussed such complexity — that every being faced while being with someone, in a mild way as if he is talking in front of us. It's making everyone so fragile and overly sensitive that they won't listen to the facts.. When did people start becoming so offended and sensitive to the hard truths..

For his fellow men, he pinpointed tiniest details that they often ignore like what nail color your woman is wearing? He asked men to notice such details and make compliments because these small gestures mark lasting impacts. This book is made of results googling "be yourself quotes" "strong woman quotes" and "self-worth quotes" merged together. I appreciate the few chapters you dedicated to men, Mr Soul, but I can‘t befriend the number of times you stated the women as the victims and the men as the wrong doers in here. The book contains advises for women on how to not settle in any less from a man, advises for men to be a better man for his woman and advises for partners on how to have a long and lasting relationship - considering it's that easy. Nationalist, patriotic, conservative, and spiritually autobiographical . . . it is a strange, enormously, clever (also foolish) and (in an alarming sense) fascinating piece, of sustained, often anguished and sometimes contorted eloquence.Yes, a relationship is a full-time job. You can’t just leave it to a person and hope for the best. It is a 50/50 thing. Both parties have to play their part till forever as they usually do at the beginning. This is the only way to make it work. I read it, This writer is a novice, that is pellucid. Vocabulary is none existent and passages are repetitive with abundant use of cliche, disregard to sentence formation and punctuation are some of her striking errors. Though the writer claims that he's a man and so is his pseudonym, but his writing style, as well as his perspective towards life, is that of a woman. Some might argue that the writer could be a feminist, writing particularly for women, but the picture she (sorry I can't picture her as a man) painted is that of a woman who needs to be advised by the more experienced ones, and what her rights are. Why would a man go to such lengths just to tell what his obligations are and not a word about his rights? So this is the work of a woman. Her main focus is that she shouldn't be blamed, not get mad on, and not to keep your expectations high from her but she has the right to all the afore said things. Well, are we dealing with a psychic patient or a woman? Plus, the author has dedicated space for both women and man to take notes about what they had done in their past relationships? What they should had done? What should be avoided in future relations to avoid unpleasant experiences? I guess the quotes are supposed to be made up by the author himself. I wish they were more original. I wish they would teach something more than the stuff you read on inspo insta accounts.